Dress code needs to be changed
Have you ever been dress coded? Well, I’m surprised it doesn’t happen more because of the extensive dress code policies. I doubt most students have even read the dress code policies; before I wrote this article, I never had.
The exact dress code policy states:
“School is a place of work. Maintaining the proper learning climate is a shared responsibility between students, parents and VMSS staff.
Therefore, in the interest of maintaining the proper learning environment, VMSS will enforce the following dress code:
- Shirts must be modest and not expose the chest or torso area.
- Pants, shorts, and skirts must be worn so the beltline is above the hips and extend to mid-thigh (as defined as halfway between the crotch and knee) or below
- Shoes must be worn at all times
Prohibited items
- No hats. Sweatshirt hoods may not be worn in the building.
- Heavy chains, gloves, wallet chains, spiked necklaces or wristbands, dog collars or any other accessory not suitable for a place of work.
- No dirty or excessively torn or ripped clothing.
- No clothing that is excessively baggy, sagging, or excessively tight.
- No clothing with words or visuals which are obscene, abusive or discriminatory, or which advertise, alcohol, tobacco, firearms, narcotics or dangerous drugs.” (Excerpt from the VMSS Dress Code)
Students are penalized for being born tall.
I have many problems with the school dress code. The first problem I have is that it’s not fair to make these rules without giving students an out. What I mean is for girls it is literally impossible to find shorts that fit in any store that meet the “dress code”. Later on, in the dress code, it states, “What might be appropriate for one child may leave another child over-exposed.” But, that’s not how they wrote the bulk of the dress code. It’s very specific. For example, “Pants, shorts, and skirts must extend to mid-thigh (as defined as halfway between the crotch and knee) or below.” I understand this rule but, I’m not even 5 feet tall and there are plenty of students in the 5’9’ to 6’ range. Why does this matter? Well, let’s say me and someone who is six feet tall gets the same shorts in the same size. Mine go to the dress code length. Hers don’t. Why is this? It is simply because she has longer legs. If she found shorts that appeal to the dress code, they would have to be from the boys’ section or pants that she trimmed to appeal to the dress code.
We can’t even wear out sports uniforms if we have an after-school game
What about sports, like the girls’ fast-pitch softball team, every now and then the players come in school in their uniforms. Their shorts fit the dress code, but what if the volleyball team had to do this. Volleyball shorts are extremely tight and short for good reason, they are short so they comply with your knee pads. Another big problem is the teachers are not synced about the dress code. For example one of my friends got dress coded for her shorts. The next day I saw a girl about her height wearing the same shorts. She was not dress coded, this not only angered the girl that did get dress coded, but it gives students mixed messages. I disagree with this dress code for a lot of reasons, a big one is it’s not effective. And it won’t be until its fair and equal to all students.
The Unsaid Rule About Shoulders
Over time students, mostly girls, have noticed the shoulder rule. Though it’s not written in the dress code, teachers are known to enforce it. I’ve even been told on occasion to cover up my shoulders. This is so ridiculous that it cracks me and my friends up all the time. The exact rule falls into “Students who dress inappropriately or proactively are distracting to the learning process.” The most hilarious thing about this rule is that if anything is going to take away focus, it’s not our shoulders. Even boys agree. Shoulders are not in the least bit inappropriate. Just to make sure it was indeed agreed upon by students, I took a poll. The results were as expected, I surveyed 50 students, 25 were boys and 25 were girls. Not a single one said that they thought shoulders were inappropriate. I by no means am saying that in all cases, you can wear whatever you want. Tight spaghetti string tank tops can be inappropriate, but what you need to pay attention to is what part is the inappropriate part, it’s the tightness that’s inappropriate not the showing of shoulders.
The Double Standard: Girls VS Boys
The dress code is one of the greatest examples of the double standards for girls vs. boys. The double standard is when one person has to do extra things or has to work twice as hard to get to the same place for no good reason. I, as a girl, have to constantly check myself: Are my shorts long enough? Even though stores don’t sell shorts made for girls that comply. Boys never get dress coded and are never forced to change. Even if they are wearing their pants or shorts below the belt line. They don’t even look at boys to see if they are violating the dress code. Why should every girl have to worry about yet another thing when boys never have to? The fact is we shouldn’t.
Valley Middle School Needs to Fix The Dress Code
Throughout writing and researching this topic, I’ve become even more passionate about fixing this. There is even a joke going around that the administrators are dress coding because they are bored. Now, of course, this is not true, but unless you go and dress code every girl whose shorts are “too short” you should not be able to dress code one. We need new dress code policies.
Raine Duke • Sep 26, 2022 at 4:12 pm
I 100% agree with you. Dress codes are mostly targeted towards girls just trying to wear the clothes they like. If the dress code was really fair, and inclusive of all, then the boys would get dress coded just as much, if not more than girls do.
Bri • Mar 8, 2021 at 11:52 am
I agree with you 100%. As being a tall female for my age, it’s hard to find shorts or anything that will necessarily fit the dress code. I think boys have more rights when it comes to the dress code and is completely unfair. I think it should be changed for the better. There are a few cons that you didnt mention. First is that girls can get “cat-called” which I believe is unfair and not right. Boys can sometimes be horrible and I think this may be why the dress code is so strict. Aside from that, I still believ the dress code should be changed.
Isabella Frutiger • Jan 17, 2021 at 9:59 pm
I agree. It’s basically saying that it is our fault that we’re “distracting” to young men (not saying boys don’t get dress code, they’re just less likely). And then we’re being punished for it instead of teaching boys that it is literally our shoulder.
Blue hour by txt • Nov 30, 2020 at 9:00 pm
Y’all shouldn’t be wearing that clothes. As a girl I understand that everyone is annoyed but you’re taking it to far ‘Maddie’ some people can’t even wear ripped jeans (take this offensive or not offensive ✌)
Olivia • Oct 29, 2020 at 10:55 am
100% agree. All the way.
Lauren Wemhoff • Oct 2, 2020 at 12:07 pm
I agree if I wear shorts that aren’t past my fingertips I get dress coded. Or if I wear ripped jeans with holes above the knee I get dress coded. It’s just not fair.
Elisabeth Schmidt • Sep 21, 2020 at 6:57 pm
I totally agree! I heard the dress code in fifth grade (last year) when the teachers were preparing us and I just thought “What? How is that even remotely inappropriate?” That day, a girl was literally wearing a shirt that showed her shoulders and I thought “Oh cute!” Not “Ewww I cant focus! Go change!” And it is more aimed toward girls than boys, which is quite unfair! I mean, it’s not like boys clothing never gets distracting, either!
Lexi Easley • Oct 17, 2019 at 10:43 am
I think the dress code in our school is unfair and needs to be changed and I think we need to tell our principles these things .
Zenna • Sep 13, 2019 at 12:10 pm
Boys get away with more than what we do. We don’t get to where tink tops and boys do. Even tho it say NO TINK TOPS boys get away with it. Not fair. They need to watch boys clothing too.
Mee Mai • Jun 2, 2019 at 6:32 pm
Is shoulders against the dress code or not? I still don’t know. Also I absolutely agree with u.
Tirsit • Feb 13, 2019 at 10:27 am
I personally have nothing against the dress code and in my opinion because I feel like it’s there to help us focus on learning and focus on our acedemic career. I do know though a couple of students complaining how the dress code should be changed and how it’s unfair. I will hand it to you though you obviously throughly did your research and you have done a great job for creating a strong argument that actually convinced me about the dress code issue by an estimate of 30 %. But personally for me, and it might just be the fact that I’m not that into flashy clothes and I just wear sweaters with leggings all the time, but I just feel that school is an environment for learning and that these rules are here to make sure we stay focused on the things that matter and to keep us on track.
Nanyang • Feb 13, 2019 at 10:19 am
I totally agree with you I think the dress code is mostly towards girls than boys.
Sydney • Jan 4, 2019 at 11:00 am
I agree completely, I’ve seen guys with their pants down to their knees and they don’t even get a glance if girls were to do that it would be “highly inappropriate.”
Godzilla Peña • Dec 21, 2018 at 2:07 pm
Though I’ve never been Dress-Coded(nor I ever will), I get what youre sayin, and I agree. Clothes that some of us tall people like can’t get, only because of our height. It’s not like any of us are 30 stories high or anything, but the school needs to be a bit mor leaneant on clothing. The size of the clothing, not the type of clothing.
Thu • Dec 21, 2018 at 1:26 pm
I so agree with you about how shoulders aren’t distracting at all, essentially to the boys my friends and I laugh about ti all the he time too. At the beginning if the year my friend and I git dresses code for out shorts being “too short” and we both have worn those shirts to school before and the teachers never said anything, plus I saw someone wearing the same length shorts and they didn’t get dresses coded. Same goes for boys they can wear their pants all the way down to their knees and they don’t say anything to them. So I agree that the dress code should be changed.
Sydney Banks • Dec 21, 2018 at 1:19 pm
I agree with you, the dress code should be changed. It’s unfair to interrupt a girls day and force her to change her clothes when boys will never have to.
Grace • Dec 21, 2018 at 9:14 am
I agree with what you said about the sports uniforms. And the shoulder rule I think it’s unfair. But at the same time I think the dress code is decent ok but there could be some changes
Tristin • Dec 18, 2018 at 11:03 am
I completely agree with you on this information about, how the boys don’t get as dress coded as we girls do. The thing is we don’t need to be treated differently just by what we’re wareing. I think that you are prasenting good points for students, and what they should or shouldn’t wear in the school.
Katie • Nov 20, 2018 at 11:58 am
I agree with you it just isn’t fair the dress code needs to change.
I am 100% on your side.
Olivia • Nov 19, 2018 at 10:42 am
I understand where you are coming from with this, but I personally don’t believe it is that bad. Especially compared to some places that don’t even allow leggings. I believe the dress code is perfectly fine. I have quite long legs and I just don’t really wear shorts. I have never been nor seen nor heard of someone dress coded who wasn’t wearing something obviously inappropriate.